Inappropriate Anger by Abuse Victims

Abuse victims as they become older and have reached some resolution or not recognize a part of them have a rescue, “white knight syndrome” in them. What is this? Frequently when they are aware of an atrocity, or a miss-handling of a situation, at the work place, home, school or even in the family there may be an inner trigger that urges them to run, or fix the problem immediately. Injustice by corporations, or miss-handling of situations in politics are a blatant abuse of power. The victim,(so to speak) the individual effected by this atrocity is devastated, has no where to turn, and is usually blind sided. Many times there is a manipulation of sorts, the company, the school, the politician warms the person with false promises of family atmosphere, fairness, promises of communication, and hence a trust is developed. When the axe comes, it is symbolic of a perpetrator, the trust blanket has been laid, the pseudo warmth has been touted, the friend base has been built, and then when you least expect it, it is gone. This my friends is abuse, the equivalent of emotional and sexual abuse.

We see this daily in politics and even religion. A victim, many times has an inappropriate inner need to want to fix, to come to the aid of what is right. This can be even to the extent that they sacrifice themselves. Inappropriate anger towards injustice needs to be kept in check. Victims of abuse we cannot save the world, we need to recognize why we feel this way, and take care of us. Do not act in haste, bounce your feelings off your loved ones, and your trusting peers. It is when you act in haste you role model the perpetrator, be thoughtful and prudent. recognize the atrocity, and distance yourself very far from these individuals. They have little to no integrity, are hypocrites and would sell their mothers soul for their own personal gain. Humanistic approaches in business and politics have fallen drastically to the way side. No one can correct the imbalance, but you can correct the inner feeling of helplessness and anger.

What is important.

1. Victims have inappropriate anger towards abuses in power based on their own abuse.

2. Recognize your limitations, and do not cut off your nose to spite your face.

3. Help, by being supportive to the victim, and realize there will be no change with individuals of power, and miss-guided values.

4. Having someone tell you they are Christian, or morally correct, or loving does NOT mean they are, it is only in behavior will the truth be shown.

5. recognize the good in people and surround yourself with these peers for they will be there for you.

Remember your best friend, and remember your positive qualities. No one can take those away from you. NO ONE.

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